My boyfriend still has an online dating profile

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Did you confront/question your partner about their recent activity on the site or remain silent?

It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?After finding love and a serious relationship some men still keep their online dating profile active.The explanations for this are pretty lame but these men always make the argument that there’s some good reason to keep their profile active.Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.She is also the host of the TV Talk Show "Single in the City" on the Rogers Network.Why some men still keep their online dating profile active.If it's not a passive-aggressive way of telling me we have broken up, what is it?SO HELP ME UNDERSTAND You are consciously and deliberately advertising to the entire (FEMALE) population that you are available.How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…

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