Their sole and current purpose in life is to find a man, set up strong relationship, form a family an…
But not every cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs.
There’s been an enormous amount of media coverage centred on older women dating younger men over the last decade.
However, what’s actually going on underneath the pop-style commentary and tabloid tales of ‘cougars’ and their ‘cubs’?
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
In search of clarity, we set out on a mission to look beyond the loaded monikers and dubious hype surrounding older woman/younger man relationships.
Why is it still such a sensational topic and what are the perks (and pitfalls) of entering into partnership where age knows no bounds?
Because there are a ton of fantastic advantages you can experience by dating older women. Here are just 6 (though there are many more) of the best things about dating older women.It’s flattering for an older woman when a guy passes up on the younger girls in favor of her.This attention makes her feel sexy, and that feeling will instantly fuel your interactions with more passion and excitement.What's more, they are more understanding and considerate in a sense.Generally speaking, they don't have too many demands upon their future husbands.(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.Should you automatically go dutch or expect her to pay? In fact, you want to impress someone, treat a lady with some bank to a nice meal, because she appreciates exactly how much it costs. So when you take her out with your friends or coworkers, be it to a wedding or work event, you don’t have to worry she’ll perish without your constant attention. Since she’s got a little life on her (and maybe even a marriage in her past), she may not have the rigid checklist that a younger girl has.Now while older women are often interested in (or at least open to) dating younger men, that doesn’t mean they’re interested in dating “boys”.They want strong, powerful men and you’ve got to show her you’re that kind of man – who just happens to be a bit younger. You can start with strong, confident body language and eye contact.Although the US-based magazine reasoned that the cougar-craze was a fad destined for cultural oblivion, the article offered up an intriguing explanation for the newfound popularity of older woman/younger man relationships.If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.