A longer span of time before he’s reaching for the Viagra.
Sure, you’ll have dinner dates, but also be ready for, say, a 10-mile hike one weekend followed by an indie rock concert the next.
One of the members of my Inner Circle asked me to write about being an older woman involved with a younger man because she's dating someone younger.One thing that works in our favor is that I wanted a younger man (although I was thinking more like 48) and he prefers older women (he pursued me and knew how old I was, because he first set eyes on me at my 60th birthday party at the tennis club where he worked as a trainer).It turns out that one-sixth of women in their 50s prefer men in their 40s. I knew I wanted a younger man, but only as a playmate.Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.“In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”An even bigger bedroom bonus?It’s flattering for an older woman when a guy passes up on the younger girls in favor of her.This attention makes her feel sexy, and that feeling will instantly fuel your interactions with more passion and excitement. When I was 36, I had a brief, wonderful affair with a lovely 24-year-old entrepreneur I met on an airplane. My current boyfriend is nine years younger than me; the boyfriend before that, 10 years younger.Now while older women are often interested in (or at least open to) dating younger men, that doesn’t mean they’re interested in dating “boys”.They want strong, powerful men and you’ve got to show her you’re that kind of man – who just happens to be a bit younger. You can start with strong, confident body language and eye contact.